“I see you” The importance of being validated by your partner

Validation is a simple concept to understand, but in intimate relationships it can become complex. What does validation mean? In the context of your relationship it’s the recognition and acceptance of your partners internal experience as being valid; it’s their truth as they are experiencing it. It does not mean that you agree or support their feelings; it simply means …

Will Our Love Last?

  I often get asked why some relationships last for a life time and others don’t. My Husband and I have been Married 34 years and I know first- hand the growing pains of the different stages of an intimate relationship. Is it luck? Is it because the couple has a lot in common? Is it because they come from …